Are you a family lawyer, FDRP or mediator who works with high-conflict families?
Then you need to know about parenting coordination.
A growing field of practice in Australia, parenting coordination offers long-term support to families co-parenting after separation.
We sat down with Anne-Marie Cade – family lawyer, award-winning mediator and one of the leading pioneers of parenting coordination in Australia – to learn more about this transformative field.
Helping parents put court orders into practice
When separating parents are caught in ongoing conflict, a court order alone is rarely enough to establish lasting stability.
Orders may set out how family arrangements should function, but that doesn’t mean parents have the skills to make it work in practice. And when communication remains strained, it can quickly become a return path to court.
That’s where parenting coordination comes in.
Parenting coordination is a long-term, skills-based process designed to help high-conflict parents implement court orders and co-parent more effectively.
Typically court-ordered or recommended by psychologists, the process involves assigning a parenting coordinator to work with a family at the end of court proceedings – usually over 12 to 24 months.
‘In court, parents are told what to do but not shown how to do it,’ says Anne-Marie Cade, a lawyer, FDRP, parenting coordinator and conflict resolution specialist. ‘Often, they struggle to navigate the shared parenting relationship without tensions rising.
‘Parenting coordination helps them build the skills they need to co-parent effectively.’
Unlike mediation – a one-off process usually held before court – parenting coordination begins after court orders have been made.
Parenting coordinators act as case managers and conflict coaches, helping parents interpret and apply their court orders, de-escalate disputes and develop more constructive communication.
‘It’s a long-term process,’ Anne-Marie explains. ‘We work with parents to improve how they speak to one another, reduce inflammatory language and establish new habits. That takes time, but the impact is huge, especially for the children.’
Already widely used across Europe and North America, it’s now gaining traction in Australia as a powerful intervention that bridges the gap between court orders and day-to-day parenting.
Why parenting coordination belongs on your radar
For family lawyers, parenting coordination could prove a valuable addition to the support they offer clients. The challenge is awareness.
As Anne-Marie explains: ‘Parenting coordination is a powerful complement to the legal process, but because it’s relatively new to Australia, many lawyers , or at least don’t fully understand what it involves.
‘That matters. Lawyers are often the first point of contact for separating parents. If those lawyers are unsure about parenting coordination, they may miss the chance to recommend a service that could really benefit their client.’
And the benefits are significant.
Unlike traditional mediation, parenting coordination is non-confidential, allowing coordinators to speak directly with lawyers, judges, therapists, teachers and others involved in supporting the family.
This enables a more holistic, responsive approach. If a parent disengages or resists part of the court order, the coordinator can raise it with their lawyer early, preventing issues from spiralling and avoiding a return to court.
It also has significant benefits for children’s wellbeing.
‘Parenting coordination has been shown to reduce conflict and stress between parents, the very dynamics that cause the most harm to children,’ Anne-Marie adds.
An evaluation of the Israeli parenting coordination model found that 87% of families using coordinators reached at least one agreement, with over half resolving specific practical issues.
Families reported reduced hostility, and courts and welfare agencies saw fewer repeat filings, less reliance on social workers and a reduction in family violence and parent–child abuse.
‘The more lawyers understand this process and the benefits, the better positioned they are to support not just their clients’ legal outcomes, but their long-term wellbeing too.’
Keen to know more? Attend our webinar
If you’d like to learn more about parenting coordination, join Anne-Marie Cade for a live CPD webinar with the College of Law on 12 March 2026.
The session counts for 2 CPD points and covers the following about parenting coordination:
- Why it’s a powerful dispute resolution process (beyond standard mediation)
- How it differs from other resolution pathways
- How to educate clients and encourage engagement with a parenting coordinator
- How coaching plays a role in the process
- Trauma-responsive strategies that protect children and support healthier co-parenting
‘This webinar is the ideal starting point for family lawyers, mediators, FDRPs or anyone curious about the field or considering adding it to their practice,’ says Anne-Marie.
‘Attendees will come away with a clearer understanding of what parenting coordination is and how it can support their clients, with the chance to ask questions along the way.
‘I’ll also be sharing some helpful strategies, from conflict management to trauma-informed approaches, that can enhance their work with families more broadly.’
With more than 12 years’ experience in family law and dispute resolution and extensive research behind her, Anne-Marie is at the forefront of parenting coordination in Australia.
Since beginning her research in 2018, she has travelled to 16 cities across seven countries – including the US, Canada, Spain, Italy and Singapore – to examine how parenting coordination is delivered overseas.
She’s now brought that global insight to Australia, launching the Parenting Coordination Institute to build professional capability, raise public awareness and help shape this emerging practice.
Together, these efforts are helping to embed parenting coordination as a meaningful next step in the family law landscape.
Don’t miss this opportunity to learn from one of Australia’s leading voices in this exciting new field. Find out more and register now.